OK, so after spending the morning with our friends (to include little Caleb...who is a good three or four years older than the boys and of course, fully potty trained)...the boys decided to revisit the "big boy underwear" concept...
While they were in their room (not napping) they decided to find their big boy underwear, take off their diapers, put on the underwear, and put their own shorts back on (they both put them on backwards)....so they came out of their room announcing that they were "wearing underwears!"....a few months ago they were putting the underwear on over their shorts.
So it clicked today that the big boy underwear goes
in place of (and not in addition to) the diaper.
They were very pleased with themselves...and I asked W what he needed to do if he had to pee or poop. He said "go on the potty." Ohhhkayyyy.....within minutes he was screaming. He peed all over himself. So we cleaned him up and then....J peed. They were not happy that the big boy underwear did not work as anticipated.
They are definitely old enough and ready to potty train but I just didn't want to do it with Geoff being gone. That is stressful enough. W did poop on the potty for the first time a few weeks ago at Aunt JJ's house...(2 days in a row) but hasn't since. Here is W making his first official poppy flush:

But soon.....